D, a sexologist and therapist in Toronto, Canada, to find out which guys you should strongly consider ruling out from the get go.Here are the seven types to watch for: Just Out of a Relationship Guy He's on the market again, but that doesn't necessarily mean he's ready—especially if he's the one who's been dumped.
We talked to family therapist Vienna Pharaon, LMFT, and Carlen Costa, Ph.
"Usually when people jump into the next relationship, they haven't done the work to grow themselves from that space, [or] to ready themselves for the next relationship," says Pharaon.
"You want to make sure that person has some time in between the previous relationship to actually be a human."Gets Really Angry Really Quickly Guy When a guy's reactions are consistently overboard for what's appropriate, it's a big red flag. Ultimately, you want someone who is responsive, not reactive; someone who can understand where their feelings are coming from and act accordingly.
No Ambition Guy"This is the guy who doesn't want to improve his life.
He's not very motivated, he's not very accountable for his actions, he's not very accountable to anything or to anyone, especially you, and that's how it would affect you," Costa says.